Colette Dowling, LMSW

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Colette Dowling is an internationally known writer and lecturer and a psychotherapist with a private practice in New York. In the fall of 2005 she will be giving a lecture at The Training Institute for Mental Health, in Manhattan, on women’s vulnerabilities in loving and being loved. Dowling will discuss new theories on why women so often are drawn to relationships in which they idealize their partners and become submissive. She will draw on personal experiences, as written about in her bestselling The Cinderella Complex, as well as those of women she’s interviewed who find themselves losing a sense of identity once they fall in love. Among the topics to be discussed are:

--Childhood experiences that make women vulnerable to relationships in which they become submissive

--Why the distant, abandoning lover becomes the Ideal Lover

--Mother as a model of sexuality

--The role of aggression in passionate love

--Research on women who experience themselves as active, creative partners in romance and sex

Ms. Dowling is currently writing a book about women’s conflicts with loving and being loved. You will find the date for her lecture here, later, or you can call the Training Institute for Mental Health, which is located at 20 West 21st St., NYC, NY, at 212-627-8181.


Selected Works

e.g. Non-Fiction
Nonfiction
The Cinderella Complex
"The best of this genre--'How women are victimized and how they can stop being so'--is still The Cinderella Complex."
--The Philadelphia Inquirer
"Dowling has hit an important nerve... she has given a voice to a conflict that many women now feel."
--Washington Post Book World
"Beautifully documented... Dowling backs up her theories with facts."
--Working Woman
You Mean I Don’t Have to Feel This Way?
"This really excellent book deals sensitively and directly with culturally imbued fears of biological therapies for emotional disorders."
--Donald F. Klein, Professor of Psychiatry, Columbia University College of Physicians and Surgeons
Red Hot Mamas:
Coming into Our Own at Fifty

"Red Hot Mamas is for women who dare to open the door and rediscover themselves at midlife."
--Sally Severino, M.D.

"Red Hot Mamas careens between hilarity and a cri de coeur as Dowling confronts topics like the estrogen controversy, midlife sexuality, and the financial facts of life for females--offering positive actions for women at the midpoint."
--Myrna Lewis, M.S.W., Mount Sinai School of Medicine



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